tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post4084089140803673723..comments2024-01-05T09:54:15.164-05:00Comments on lots and lots of nonsense: adoptionhalloweenloverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05226515861332754382noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-86781651834832076812009-12-10T15:31:32.129-05:002009-12-10T15:31:32.129-05:00When I first read what you were doing I was not a ...When I first read what you were doing I was not a happy camper. But then I realized that your dogs were brought up pre-kids. Which makes for a tough time for many breeds.<br />I am a breeder of dachshunds. One of the things I have seen through the years is that pups that are carefully raised with kids, will guard those children and be their best friends. However, if the kids come after the dogs are raised many will look at the kids as competition.<br />So please do not beat yourself up about this and think about this. When Gabe and Josie are older and can learn not to touch and bother, that will be the time to get a pup. Remember also, look into a breed like a golden or lab, who are great with kids. My dachsies are because I raise them with children. But I think that age 6 and up is best.<br />I know you will miss your fur children. But remember, in time you can have a dog again. When things are settled and the kids are older.<br />Hugs!Maribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17435726542598515305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-79973004683633196532009-12-10T10:44:15.830-05:002009-12-10T10:44:15.830-05:00Are they willing to take the dogs for a week or tw...Are they willing to take the dogs for a week or two to see how it goes?Liz Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469435277058701080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-62391620005301726572009-12-09T10:59:59.848-05:002009-12-09T10:59:59.848-05:00I'm a long-time reader of your blog, but a fir...I'm a long-time reader of your blog, but a first-time commenter. I have an almost 17 year-old pug and two cats and put my animals first to the point where I probably "cross the line" at times. My family is the same way: my sister's pug bit her son and she considered giving up her son before the pug! :) <br /><br />For what it is worth, however, I think you are doing the right thing by finding your beautiful griffies another home. Some dogs (especially lap dogs) just aren't good with kids and never will be. It seems to me that you have tried everything possible to fix the situation, so you shouldn't feel guilty. Your dogs sound genuinely miserable with the kids around, and you have found a home for them where they would thrive.<br /><br />I don't believe it is the right thing to, say, give a pet to the pound in this situation; but to find a new home for them makes sense for all involved.<br /><br />Maybe you should make a contract or something so that if (for some strange reason) this new home doesn't work, she'd have to return the dogs to you?....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-69272212499643764902009-12-09T10:44:47.111-05:002009-12-09T10:44:47.111-05:00I truly think you've done the best you can, ho...I truly think you've done the best you can, honey. Three years is a looong time. I know you'll miss them but you have to take comfort in the fact that they will be so much happier with this couple. <br /><br />Maybe in the future you can adopt a more family friendly dog who will thrive in your home as they surely will in their new home.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-51144429257866961522009-12-08T19:19:44.936-05:002009-12-08T19:19:44.936-05:00some of it depends on the breed, but a lot of it j...some of it depends on the breed, but a lot of it just comes down to your particular dog(s)'s temperament.<br /><br />For instance, Lovey wasn't built to be a family dog, he was made to be a lap dog. But he does love the kids (our kids, particularly- other kids he could take or leave). He tolerates them when he's not really in the mood, but when he does want to play they're his favorite toys.<br /><br />My sister's dog would prefer to have a child plastered to his back at all times. Any child. One of theirs, a neighborhood kid, <br />whatever. He's not particular. He'd even prefer two or three kids climbing all over him, but you know, one will do in a pinch. He's the dog that will pull the kids in the sled- something you will NEVER catch Lovey doing. But the sister's dog is MADE to be a family dog. Like, he would be FORLORN without children poking their fingers up his nose and sitting on his tail, and pulling his ears.<br /><br />It breaks my heart to think of poor Tango pooping on the couch because of the stress. It's sad, but some dogs just don't like kids. No matter what. I don't think you've done anything differently than the people out there who have kids who's dogs go bananas over kids. If anything, I think you've tried harder to make it work than most people have to, or even would bother to.<br /><br />But I really really think this could be the right thing AND the best thing for the dogs.<br /><br />And when Harriet and Vincent hatch babies you can have the best singer. He will cheer you up when you're blue.Chatty Crickethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13741907859944987779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-84684256441972116802009-12-08T18:02:00.155-05:002009-12-08T18:02:00.155-05:00Sending hugs and love and the knowledge that you w...Sending hugs and love and the knowledge that you will be giving them a gift that they need.Liz Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469435277058701080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-30520566838547996122009-12-08T16:09:40.414-05:002009-12-08T16:09:40.414-05:00Oh you poor thing. Try not to beat yourself up...I...Oh you poor thing. Try not to beat yourself up...I am not a dog owner BUT I think that it must be a little like parenting and one thing I have learnt about THAT is that there is no point beating yourself up about what is or isn't happening. Being hard on yourself because they haven't adjusted is like getting frustrated because your child doesn't sleep through the night, or eat vegetables, or anything really. They haven't adjusted. And that's OK. You ARE doing the best thing for all of you - believe that - and I am sure it will get easier for you over time. At least you can still see them...and the kids will be happier and relaxed, the dogs certainly will be, the new owners happy and Josh happier. Poor you will be the one with the broken heart but I am sure it will get better. Just remember you are doing the best thing for all of you even though it seems the worst thing to you...oh the scarifices a mother makes never ends! Lots of love to YOU because YOU need it. Everyone else will be fine. Promise.BabyMachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02005492484650666091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10449167.post-56787934198674702632009-12-08T15:55:51.596-05:002009-12-08T15:55:51.596-05:00It was hard at best, and I am sure you will think ...It was hard at best, and I am sure you will think of them daily. Rest assured that you did what was best for all.<br />Some dogs do adjust and some don't, all situations are different. Please know that you are not the only pet owner that has ever had to do this!<br />HUGS to all.Stacynoreply@blogger.com